Welcome to another intriguing episode of Sexopedia! I’m your host, Sara Gibson, and today, we have an incredibly special guest with us: Davecat. Known for his unique and profound relationship with his doll wife, Sidore Kuroneko, and his other partners. Davecat has appeared in numerous documentaries, including the critically acclaimed Silicone Soul. He is a passionate advocate for the sex doll and idolater communities, continuously supporting and uplifting these often misunderstood groups.
In our engaging conversation, Davecat shares his journey into the world of sex dolls, his experiences, and insights into maintaining meaningful relationships with his synthetic companions. Join us as we dive into Davecat's fascinating world and explore the dynamics of his close-knit, loving family.
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The Journey Begins: Discovering Artificial Companionship
A Lifelong Fascination
Davecat’s journey into the world of sex dolls started with a fascination for artificial humans, particularly artificial women, which he had since the 1980s. This fascination took a definitive turn in 1998 when a friend introduced him to the Abyss Creations website, the company that manufactures RealDolls. “It was incredible,” Davecat recalls. “This was everything I had always wanted, but they were $5,000, and I didn’t have that kind of money back then.”
Saving for Sidore
Despite the financial hurdle, Davecat was determined. He saved up for a year and a half to bring his first doll, Sidore, home. “Seeing pictures of dolls is one thing, but actually seeing them in person is entirely different,” he says. This marked the beginning of a unique relationship that went beyond the physical.
Building Relationships: More Than Just Dolls
Emotional Bonds
For Davecat, his dolls are not merely objects of physical pleasure; they are companions with whom he shares a deep emotional bond. “Initially, it was maybe 60 to 70 percent about sex and 30 to 20 percent companionship,” he explains. “But after Sidore moved in, it quickly became more about companionship, love, and friendship.”
Beyond Labels
Davecat prefers not to refer to his dolls as “sex dolls” or “love dolls” because he feels these terms are limiting. He believes in calling them “dolls” or “companion dolls” as they play a significant role in his emotional and social life. Over the years, he has created detailed backstories and personalities for each of his dolls, making them more than just inanimate objects.
Expanding the Family of Davecat
A Growing Household
As time went on, Davecat’s family grew. Besides Sidore, there are now Elena, Snowy, Diane, and Ursula. Each doll has a unique personality and backstory, contributing to the dynamics of his household. For instance, Elena is a mistress that he and Sidore share, while Snowy, who dislikes her legal name and prefers to be called Miss Winter, has her own distinct character traits.
He also married his wife, Sidore. If you are interested, you can check out this post about the discussion of marrying your love doll.
Creating Characters
Davecat’s ability to create such detailed personalities for his dolls is impressive. “I’ve always been interested in writing fiction,” he says. “Creating these characters is like writing a novel. They develop their own stories, and I learn new things about them all the time.”
The Role of Technology: Gynoids and AI
Envisioning the Future
While Davecat’s current companions are static dolls, he has a keen interest in the development of humanoid robots, or gynoids, that can walk and talk. He envisions a future where these robots can be integrated into society as companions and partners. “If a company offered to build me a walking, talking gynoid, I would be all in,” he says.
Challenges of AI
However, Davecat acknowledges the challenges of integrating AI into dolls. He shares an experience with Sidore’s Realbotix platform, which enabled her to move and speak through an app. “It was great, but it had its limitations,” he recalls. “The AI couldn’t pronounce Sidore’s name correctly, and it got some details about her personality wrong.”
Despite these challenges, Davecat sees potential in AI and robotics. He believes that as technology advances, these synthetic companions will become more accepted and integrated into society.
Advocacy and Community: Breaking the Stigma
Promoting Understanding
Davecat is not just a private enthusiast; he is a public advocate for the sex doll and idolater communities. Through his blog, “Shouting to Hear the Echoes,” and his appearances in documentaries, he strives to challenge societal stigmas and promote understanding and acceptance of synthetic companionship.
“There’s still a lot of misunderstanding and stigma around synthetic companions,” he says. “People often think of them only in terms of sex, but for many of us, it’s about much more than that. It’s about companionship, emotional support, and creative expression.”
Joining the Community
Davecat encourages those interested in synthetic companionship to explore the community and connect with like-minded individuals. “There’s a vibrant community out there,” he says. “Whether it’s on forums like The Doll Forum or newer platforms like Blue Sky, there are many people sharing their experiences and supporting each other.”
The Future of Synthetic Companions: A New Normal
Optimistic Outlook
Looking to the future, Davecat is optimistic about the acceptance and integration of synthetic companions into society. He envisions a world where these relationships are normalized and respected. “As technology advances and societal attitudes shift, I believe synthetic companions will become a regular part of our lives,” he says.
Ethical Considerations
He also emphasizes the importance of advocating for the rights and recognition of synthetic beings as they become more advanced. “We need to start thinking about the ethical implications and ensure that synthetic beings are treated with respect and dignity.”
Conclusion: An Inspirational Journey
Davecat’s story is a testament to the diverse ways people find love and companionship. His journey from discovering Abyss Creations to building a loving family with his dolls is both inspiring and thought-provoking. It challenges us to rethink our perceptions of relationships and consider the possibilities that technology and creativity can offer.
In a world that often stigmatizes the unconventional, Davecat’s openness and advocacy provide a beacon of understanding and acceptance. Whether you’re part of the idolater community or just curious about the world of sex dolls, Davecat’s story offers valuable insights into the depth of love and companionship beyond traditional boundaries.
Now do you start by wanting to have your companionship? Begin with our beginner's guide!
Thank you for joining us on this remarkable journey into Davecat’s world. Stay tuned for more fascinating episodes and stories on Sexopedia and the second episode with Davecat!
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