LoveNestle Weekly Sex Position 38: Cowgirl’s Helper
Welcome to the Weekly Sex Position series! In this week's edition, we will be exploring the cowgirl's helper. The cowgirls' helper sex position is a fun and exciting variation on the classic cowgirl position. It offers a combination of pleasure for both partners and allows the woman to control the depth and speed of penetration. This step-by-step guide will show you how to perform this sex position effectively.
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What is the Cowgirl's Helper Sex Position
The cowgirl's helper sex position is a variation of the traditional cowgirl position, where the receiving partner lies on their back, and the penetrating partner straddles them on top. In the cowgirl's helper, the penetrating partner takes a more active role by holding the hips or thighs of the receiving partner and assisting in the movement. This can provide additional support, control, and deeper penetration, enhancing pleasure for both partners. It's a popular position for its intimacy, eye contact, and the ability for both partners to take an active role in the rhythm and depth of penetration.
Benefits of Cowgirl's Helper Sex Position
Deeper Penetration
Reduce Discomfort
More Intimate than Some Other Sex Positions
Reduces Fatigue
Easy to Add Sex Toys into the Mix for Additional Stimulation
How to Make the Cowgirl Helper Sex Position Even Better
Experiment with Angles
One of the key benefits of this position is that the woman has control over the depth of penetration. Experiment with various angles to find the one that feels best for you. Lean back or forward to adjust the angle and intensity of the pleasure.
Use a Sex Toy
Adding a sex toy to the Cowgirl helper position can take your pleasure to new heights. Consider using a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris or an anal toy for added stimulation. Experiment with different speeds and vibrations to find what feels best for you.
Communicate and Negotiate
Communication is key to having fulfilling and enjoyable sex. Discuss with your partner what feels good and what doesn't. Negotiate what positions or techniques you like best and make sure to listen to each other's feedback.
Use Lubrication
Lubrication is essential for any sex position, especially ones that require penetration. Use a high-quality lube to make things more comfortable and pleasurable. Experiment with different textures and flavors to enhance the experience.
Take Breaks and Explore
The cowgirl helper sex position allows for a lot of exploration and experimentation. Take breaks from penetration to engage in other activities such as oral sex or manual stimulation. This will keep the excitement levels high and lead to more intense orgasms.
Incorporate Sensual Touch
Sensual touch can enhance any sex position, including the cowgirl helper. Use your hands to caress and stimulate your partner's erogenous zones. This can add another layer of pleasure and make the experience more fulfilling.
Practice and Experiment
As with any sex position, it takes practice to master. Don't be afraid to experiment and try new things. The more comfortable and confident you become, the better the cowgirl helper position will feel.
Variations of Cowgirl's Helper Sex Position
Reverse Cowgirl
In this variation, the woman straddles her partner's waist while facing away from him. This allows for a different angle of penetration and more intimate eye contact. The woman can control the depth and rhythm of her movements, providing her partner with a thrilling sensation.
Scissors with Oral
In this variation, the woman performs oral sex on her partner as she is riding him. This allows for simultaneous stimulation and a deeper connection between the partners. It can be especially enjoyable for men who appreciate the combination of oral and penetrative sex.
Modified Cowgirl
In the Modified cowgirl position, the woman leans forward while on top of her partner, placing her hands on his chest or thighs for support. This allows for deeper penetration and a unique angle for stimulation. The woman can also control the speed and depth of her movements, making it an exciting variation for both partners.
Doggy Style Cowgirl
This variation combines the classic Doggy Style position with the cowgirl's helper. The woman gets down on all fours, with her partner behind her, and then lowers herself onto his erect penis. This allows for a deeper angle of penetration and a different sensation for both partners.
Cowgirl with Anal Play
In this variation, the woman performs cowgirl sex while her partner stimulates her anus with his fingers or a toy. This allows for a combination of vaginal and anal stimulation, resulting in a heightened sexual experience for both partners.
Cowgirl with Toy Play
In this variation, the woman uses a vibrator or dildo while riding her partner. This allows for clitoral stimulation and increased pleasure for both partners. The woman can control the speed and intensity of the toy, making the experience even more intense.
Doggy Style Cowgirl with Toy Play
In this exciting variation, the woman performs Doggy Style Cowgirl while her partner stimulates her anus with his fingers or a toy. This allows for a combination of vaginal, anal, and clitoral stimulation, creating a highly arousing experience for both partners.
Cowgirl with Double Penetration
For couples who enjoy pushing the boundaries, the Cowgirl with Double Penetration variation involves the use of a dildo or vibrator along with penetration from a partner's penis. This allows for simultaneous vaginal and anal stimulation, creating a unique and intense sensation for both partners.
Tips for Cowgirl's Helper Sex Position
- Communication: It is important to communicate openly with your partner about the desired pace and intensity of movement.
- Use of props: If needed, consider using pillows or cushions to support your partner's weight and increase comfort.
- Gestalt: Experiment with incorporating additional stimulation, such as using a vibrator or sensual massage, to enhance the experience.
- Positional modifications: The cowgirl's helper position offers variations, such as leaning back or changing the angle of the hips, to add variety to the experience.
Conclusion
The Cowgirl's Helper sex position is a versatile and pleasurable variation on the traditional cowgirl position. It offers opportunities for enhanced intimacy, clitoral stimulation, and a variety of sensations for both partners. By following these tips and experimenting with different variations, you can enhance the pleasure and satisfaction of your sexual experiences.
Taylor Davison
Sex doll expert who has an accomplished career of over 4 years working in LoveNestle
